The Kink Consultant Ep 35 – What It’s Really Like to Have a Spanking Fetish: Kai and Sarah’s Story of Suppression, Self-Acceptance, and Finding Each Other (Part 1)
Jun 11, 2025
Discover the journey of Kai and Sarah as they confront the challenges of suppressing their spanking fetish. They share stories of past relationships that lacked essential chemistry, the importance of community, and how they discovered fulfillment through each other. Their conversation dives deep into the emotional costs of hiding one’s identity and the courageous steps they took to align their lives with their true selves. This compelling discussion offers hope and validation for anyone navigating the complexities of identity and kink.
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Early Marriage Turned Abusive
- Sarah married young and introduced her husband to spanking, which later turned violent and abusive.
- That marriage ended and she suppressed her fetish for years before rediscovering it and exploring safely online.
One Experience Changed Everything
- After suppressing her kink, Sarah sought a single experience and found it life-changing, which ultimately dissolved her relationship.
- That initial positive experience led her to further explore community and content creation with a good spankings.
A FetLife Message That Reconnected Them
- Sarah posted for wound-care advice on FetLife after a severe spanking and Kai replied with helpful guidance.
- That exchange restarted communication and later blossomed into deep connection over months.
