The Catholic Gentleman FLASHBACK: How to Discuss Sex with your Wife
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Oct 16, 2025 In this engaging discussion, Devin Schadt, an author and speaker devoted to Catholic spirituality and marriage, teams up with John Heinen to tackle the tricky topic of discussing sex within marriage. They reveal how silence can harm intimacy and the importance of open communication. Drawing on biblical wisdom, they outline how to approach discussions about desires with honesty, mercy, and kindness. They emphasize prioritizing your spouse's needs, the importance of listening, and the idea that sexual desire is a sacred gift to be embraced, not shamed.
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Sex Completes The Sacrament
- The conjugal sexual act completes the sacrament of marriage and serves as a profound sign of unity toward holiness.
- Sexual union is both chemically and spiritually designed to deepen marital communion and grow sanctifying grace.
Keep The Goal In Focus
- Remember the goal of conversations about sex is marital unity and holiness, not simply more sex.
- Frame talks as steps toward an intimate, thriving marriage that honors God.
Start Non-Accusational Dialogues
- Have non-accusatory, regular conversations about sex that describe your feelings, not your spouse's faults.
- Ask about libido and attraction levels to learn where each partner truly is.
