Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda Episode 171: What If I’m Not Attracted to Them?
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Jul 17, 2022 AI Snips
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Attraction Isn't Ultimate
- Physical attraction matters but far less than many think, especially long-term in marriage.
- You will sometimes not feel attracted to your spouse due to life circumstances, so prioritize durable qualities.
Honeymoon Tragedy Illustrates Vows
- Speaker 2 recounts a couple whose honeymoon accident left the wife paralyzed.
- The husband cared for her physically, illustrating vows 'in sickness and in health'.
Invest In Appreciating Qualities
- Invest in qualities that appreciate (character, faith, partnership) rather than fleeting physical beauty.
- Avoid prioritizing depreciating traits when choosing a long-term partner.