The conversation challenges the significance of traditional schooling. It questions the value of grades and the concept of a permanent record. The host emphasizes that many academic accolades have little impact on real-life success. Instead, it promotes the idea of balancing education with meaningful learning experiences. The importance of open communication with children about their schooling is also highlighted, encouraging genuine curiosity and growth over mere compliance with the system.
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The Paradox of School
School is a game with made-up rewards and seemingly no real-world impact.
However, it significantly influences future opportunities and teaches essential life skills.
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The Marshmallow Test Reinterpreted
Paul Tough discusses the marshmallow test in his books.
He suggests it measures a child's ability to take arbitrary rules seriously.
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Balancing School and Learning
Explain to kids that school is a game, and winning is generally better than losing.
Emphasize the importance of genuine learning as a lifelong pursuit.
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In 'How Children Succeed', Paul Tough challenges the conventional wisdom that success is primarily determined by cognitive abilities. Drawing on research in neuroscience, economics, and psychology, Tough argues that non-cognitive skills such as grit, curiosity, conscientiousness, and optimism are crucial for a child's success. The book introduces readers to new research and personal stories of children overcoming adversity, highlighting the importance of early childhood and adolescent interventions in developing these character strengths. Tough also discusses the role of parents, schools, and mentors in teaching and reinforcing these skills, and how programs like OneGoal are making a significant impact on the lives of underprivileged students.
The Years That Matter Most
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In 'The Years That Matter Most', Paul Tough delves into the complexities of the American higher education system, revealing how it affects students' lives and societal mobility. The book explores the experiences of students navigating college admissions, financial challenges, and cultural disruptions, while also examining the broader implications for American society.
"School doesn’t matter. It just doesn’t. Have your grades from elementary school ever come up once in your life? Even a Harvard GPA is unnecessary on a resume. That 'permanent record' your teachers were keeping on you turned out to not be so permanent and nobody cares that you got suspended several times in 8th grade. The whole thing is an exercise in made up rewards and punishments, an artificial fantasy world that has no bearing on the real world."
Ryan describes how to maintain a proper balance with regard to your children's schooling, in today's Daily Dad Podcast.
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