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Good Inside with Dr. Becky

My Tween is Pulling Away. Is That Normal?

Mar 19, 2024
In this engaging discussion, Jennifer, a mother of an 11-year-old son, shares her experience of navigating the emotional distance that often comes with tweens entering middle school. She grapples with balancing her son's newfound independence while seeking ways to reconnect. The conversation dives into the challenges of communication barriers, the significance of supporting her child's identity formation, and the importance of engaging in shared interests, like video games, to strengthen their relationship during this transitional phase.
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Quick takeaways

  • Understanding the need to balance parental presence and respecting a tween's independence during developmental changes.
  • Managing parental anxiety by personifying worries, establishing boundaries, and connecting with the child through shared interests.

Deep dives

Is My Son Just Introverted?

The mom shares concerns about her son's quiet behavior, contrasting it with other parents' stories. Despite his reserved nature, he engages with friends while playing video games, leaving the mom puzzled about his behavior. She worries if his demeanor hints at depression, considering his lack of emotional expression. Amidst her concerns, she contemplates if his introverted tendencies are heightened during this developmental stage.

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