Is Lifelong Commitment Still Possible in this day and age?

Jan 1, 2025

Si Lin, a clinical psychologist and mother of three, discusses her eight-year marriage to Marcus. They reflect on the challenges couples face while committing to lifelong relationships. Key insights include the importance of emotional risk-taking and communication to build a safe space for connection. Si Lin shares wisdom on balancing parenting and partnership, and emphasizes nurturing love over time. Their conversation is full of practical tips for newlyweds and seasoned couples alike, highlighting how to nurture resilience in marriage.

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INSIGHT

Consistency and Intentionality Matter

Lifelong commitment needs consistency and intentionality every day.
Loving your spouse according to their love language keeps the marriage thriving.

ADVICE

Build Marriage Dreams Intentionally

Dream of the marriage you desire and commit to making it real.
Surround yourself with couples you admire to learn from their example.

ANECDOTE

Parenting Stress Tested Marriage

Si Lin shared how they navigated parenting challenges with in-law involvement.
Marcus helped by giving honest feedback and staying supportive amidst frustration.

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“It’s learning to take emotional risk, and stay in touch with my emotions, before I slowly let him in… that is what it means to create a safe space for each other.” – Si Lin

Every wide-eyed couple says “I do” at the altar with no intention of getting a divorce. But the statistics show that the highest rates of divorce are among those married between 5 to 10 years. How do you keep your promise to lifelong commitment for the long haul, when the struggle of marriage inevitably comes?

In this heartfelt episode, Marcus and Si Lin open up about their 8-year journey together, sharing powerful principles that have helped them navigate the highs and lows. Whether you're newlywed or years into your marriage, this conversation is packed with wisdom and real-life insights you won’t want to miss!

The early years of marriage are filled with unique challenges and opportunities for growth. With some practical skills and tools, you can be equipped to build a love that lasts.

If you are a newlywed (married for less than 5 years), Just Married is a 3-session hybrid workshop designed for you! Through the hands-on and interactive guidance of husband-and-wife trainers, participants will:

Learn about the 3 critical skills that can make or break your marriage
Gain clarity on roles, responsibilities and expectations during these formative years
Strengthen communication skills to navigate tricky topics like finances, in-laws and parenting
Gain practical tools to work through differences and conflicts
Discover ways to keep the romance alive and fireproof your marriage

There will be two weekday online sessions and one onsite session on a Saturday. Find out more details at www.family.org.sg/C2JustMarried.

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