The Greg McKeown Podcast 104. Responding Instead of Reacting
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May 17, 2022 This discussion dives into the challenge of responding thoughtfully in conflicts instead of reacting impulsively. A rookie cop's story showcases the power of calm communication. The conversation also traces the evolution of policing and highlights principles for effective law enforcement. Emphasizing 'verbal judo,' it illustrates how empathy and strategic communication can de-escalate tensions. Listeners gain practical tools to redirect negativity into positive outcomes in their relationships.
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The Newspaper Trick
- Rookie cop George Thompson witnessed his training officer, Bruce Fair, use an unconventional method to de-escalate a domestic dispute.
- Fair distracted the arguing couple with a mundane request, redirecting their negative energy and resolving the conflict peacefully.
Controlling Emotions
- Reacting to negative emotions allows others to control you.
- Redirecting that energy towards positive outcomes gives you control of the situation.
Don't Take the Bait
- When facing verbal attacks, don't confront them directly.
- Instead, try to redirect the negative energy towards a positive outcome.
