The Art of Manliness

Answers to the FAQ of Modern Etiquette

May 22, 2023

Thomas Farley, known as Mr. Manners, is an etiquette and communication expert who offers insightful advice on navigating the complexities of modern manners. He discusses when handwritten thank you notes are still appropriate and whether responses like 'no problem' are courteous. Farley tackles the controversial topic of ghosting, stressing the importance of polite communication. He also delves into the pressures of tipping culture and wedding etiquette, emphasizing the need for clarity in social interactions.

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Should You Still Hold the Door Open for a Woman?

00:53

How to Say Thank You in a Genuine Way

01:30

The Importance of Manners

01:06

Tipping Practices in Different Countries

01:59

Intro

3min

The Importance of Manners and Etiquette

5min

The Art of Gratitude: Handwritten Notes and Modern Etiquette

15min

Navigating the Etiquette of Ghosting

3min

Navigating the Etiquette of Ghosting in Dating

2min

Modern Meal Etiquette and Tipping Culture

20min

Wrapping Up Insights on Modern Etiquette and Podcast Resources

2min

The charge to be well-mannered, to treat others with civility, kindness, and respect, is perennial. But the rules for how to carry those manners into action, the rules of good etiquette, change over time.

Given all the cultural and technological changes modern society has experienced, it's not always easy to know the best practices for a contemporary gentleman. Here to offer some guidance on that front is Thomas Farley, aka, Mr. Manners. Today on the show, Thomas offers some answers to the frequently asked questions around modern etiquette, including when to send a handwritten thank you note, whether "no problem" is an appropriate response to "thank you," if it's okay to ghost someone, how to deal with our ever proliferating and out-of-control tipping culture, whether it's okay to exclude kids from your wedding, if you should still open a door for a woman, and more.

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