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Getting Queerer Quicker: No, The Literary Man Isn't Disappearing—He's Just Not Longer White or Straight

Aug 24, 2025
Book critic Bethanne Patrick, known for her insightful reflections on men's literature, argues that the literary man isn't dead—he's simply transformed. She highlights how modern male writers defy traditional stereotypes, showcasing figures like Ocean Vuong and Kwame Alexander. Patrick introduces five essential books tackling today's male identity crisis, pushing for a shift away from rigid gender norms. With generational change empowering diverse narratives, she encourages men to embrace queer literature and rethink masculinity beyond outdated archetypes.
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INSIGHT

Masculinity Crisis Is Deeply Classed

  • Jessa Crispin argues the crisis of men is rooted in class, not just gender.
  • The patriarchy based on roles was replaced by a system where you 'buy your way to the top,' leaving working-class men adrift.
INSIGHT

Gen Z Rejects Rigid Gender Categories

  • Gen Z are 'getting queerer quicker' by rejecting rigid gendered categories in books and life.
  • Young people choose identities intentionally and resist labels like 'romances are for women'.
ANECDOTE

A Man Redeeming Masculinity In Denmark

  • Andrew Lipstein's Something Rotten follows Ruben, a public-radio man shamed by a Zoom incident who goes to Denmark with his wife and child.
  • Ruben seeks to reclaim masculinity by contrasting American and Danish models, with consequences when a trickster influences him.
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