Forever35 Replay - Episode 340: How to Invest In Your Friendships with Rhaina Cohen
Dec 29, 2025
Raina Cohen, an author and public radio producer, joins the conversation to delve into the significance of platonic friendships, as explored in her book, The Other Significant Others. She argues that friends can offer the same depth of commitment as romantic partners. The discussion spans practical tips for prioritizing friendships, such as establishing recurring meetups and integrating pals into daily routines. Raina also highlights the importance of intentionality in deepening bonds and addresses the evolving dynamics of friendships in a social media-driven world.
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Friendship's Untapped Potential
- Raina Cohen argues we undervalue friendship and overburden romantic relationships with unrealistic expectations.
- Platonic relationships can provide connection and caregiving traditionally reserved for romance.
A Friendship That Feels Like Family
- Raina describes a close friend whose involvement in her life felt deeper than the label "best friend."
- Their intimacy persisted even when the friend left for grad school abroad, showing friendship's durability.
Schedule And Commit To Friends
- Put friendships on your calendar and create recurring time to meet so they become priorities in your life.
- Consider ambitious steps like buying property or living with friends to build long-term social infrastructure.