This vs. That Healing vs. Holding On - Yana Jenay Conner
Dec 24, 2025
Yana Jenay Conner, a writer and Bible teacher, dives deep into the challenging yet transformative power of forgiveness. She contrasts cultural views with God's model, emphasizing that true forgiveness springs from freedom found in Christ. Yana discusses the crucial roles of grief and lament in the healing process, advocating for the acknowledgment of pain before forgiving. She also clarifies how forgiveness and accountability can coexist, promoting restoration rather than conflict. Tune in for insights on healing vs. holding on in our relationships.
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Forgiveness Is Other-Centered
- God's way of forgiveness is other-centered, not self-centered seeking personal freedom.
- Forgiveness enacts the gospel by releasing others of debt just as God released us.
Forgive From Freedom In Christ
- Forgive from a place of freedom rooted in Christ's identity and your eternal hope.
- Let God's promise of justice free you to release vengeance and pursue healing.
Grief Is Essential To Forgiveness
- Grief and lament are necessary steps before forgiveness, not obstacles to skip.
- Naming and feeling the impact of offenses prevents acting out in anger or falling into false acceptance.
