YES Spaces - What They Really Are and Why They Matter
Jun 23, 2021
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Learn about the concept of 'Yes Spaces' and how they create a safe environment for children to play and learn. Discover the importance of these spaces in child development, including the value of simple toys and establishing routines. Find out how to select toys that promote motor skills development and the benefits of outdoor play and parental involvement.
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Creating a dedicated yes space allows children to explore, play, and learn independently, fostering their sense of self and agency.
The concept of yes spaces and the RIE approach, promoted by Magda Gerber, emphasizes the importance of allowing children to initiate their own activities and have agency in their learning.
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The Concept of Yes Spaces and Enclosed Safe Spaces for Children
Yes Spaces, or enclosed safe spaces, are crucial for fostering a child's learning, play, and exploration. Magda Gerber emphasized the importance of creating a 100% safe space where children can freely explore without the need for constant supervision or restrictions. This safe space allows children to follow their own interests, learn independently, and develop their skills. It is important to establish a daily routine that includes dedicated time in the yes space, where parents can be fully present and engaged with their child without interruptions or needing to say no to their exploration. Simple toys and objects that encourage creativity, problem-solving, and fine motor skills are recommended within the space.
The Historical Context of Yes Spaces and the Importance of Recognizing their Contributions
The concept of yes spaces and the ideas associated with Magda Gerber's approach to parenting, also known as the RIE approach, were not widely discussed or recognized in the early online parenting community. The prevailing discussion focused more on physical connectedness and attachment parenting, often neglecting the importance of allowing babies and children to initiate their own activities and have agency in their learning. The term 'yes space' was introduced to emphasize the freedom and independence children can experience in a safe and enclosed environment. While it is appreciated that the concept is now more widely understood and advised, it is essential to credit Magda Gerber and her contributions to the concept.
Establishing Trust, Routine, and Respect in Yes Spaces
To make yes spaces effective, it is crucial to establish trust, routine, and respect in the child's experience. Transparent communication with the child about the timing and duration of playtime in the space helps them prepare and understand the routine. Trusting children to play independently, even as infants, and allowing them to experience their learning environment uninterrupted is a key element. Parents should be fully present when with their child in the yes space, engaging in attentive observation and active engagement. Different types of toys and objects, including those for gross and fine motor skills, should be available, ensuring they are safe, appropriate, and encourage exploration and mastery. Additionally, outdoor play can greatly enhance the positive experience and benefits of play in a yes space.
A YES space is a gift to both children and their parents. It offers children ownership of a safe place that encourages play, learning, creativity, agency, and a strong sense of self. Parents get to enjoy one of the great pleasures of parenting: observing their infant or toddler as they explore and master the world around them. Janet describes YES spaces in form and function, dispelling some common misconceptions and sharing tips about how children and parents can benefit the most.
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