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The Thais Gibson Podcast

Key Traits Of The High Functioning Fearful Avoidant (Disorganized Attachment)

Jun 27, 2024
Thais Gibson, attachment expert, discusses high-functioning fearful avoidant attachment styles. She explores traits like giving patterns, high achievement tendencies, guilt struggles, and challenges with vulnerability. The episode emphasizes self-awareness, empathy, and effective relationship management for individuals with this attachment style.
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  • Fearful avoidants exhibit a strong desire for improvement to earn love, potentially leading to relationship challenges.
  • They possess high empathy, sensitivity, and keen observation skills, but struggle with surface conversations and vulnerability.

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Traits of Fearful Avoidants

Fearful avoidants tend to be overgivers, feeling the need to earn love from others, often exhibiting a high need for contributions. They can either be high achievers or struggling individuals, with a tendency to constantly strive for improvement to feel worthy of love and connection. However, this continuous pursuit for perfection may lead to relationship challenges and feelings of inadequacy.

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