LATE BLOOMERS WHO LEFT US IN CHARGE?!: A teenage dad, an ADHD stepmum, and how we survived becoming parents
Apr 16, 2025
Rich shares his unexpected journey into fatherhood at 18, grappling with poverty and on-the-job learning. Rox recounts stepping into the role at 35, facing her ADHD and emotional scars while navigating co-parenting dynamics. They candidly discuss the challenge of different parenting styles and the tension it creates in their relationship. Both emphasize how childhood experiences significantly shape their parenting approach, ultimately revealing that showing up is what matters most, imperfections and all.
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Becoming A Dad At 18
- Rich became a dad at 18 with almost no money, no driving license, and a job that couldn't cover rent.
- He describes those early years as terrifying and learning to parent without a handbook.
Stepping Into Stepmum Role
- Rox became a stepmum at 35 and initially felt honoured and excited to join Rich's kids' lives.
- She says it was a huge learning curve that brought both closeness and unique challenges.
Context Shapes Stepparenting
- Rox notes that step-parenting varies hugely depending on history with the family and how the step-parent is introduced.
- She warns that being the 'affair' partner makes the role far harder than joining as a friend.