LATE BLOOMERS

In this episode of LATE BLOOMERS, Rich and Rox dive into the ten ridiculous, chaotic, painfully relatable ways neurodivergent brains wreck an entire night — often before we’ve even made it to bed. From doomscrolling and anxious overthinking to sofa naps, Netflix loops, gaming, temperature drama, rumination spirals, and that dreaded “big day tomorrow” insomnia, they break down why bedtime always feels like a boss level we can’t beat. It’s funny, honest, and deeply familiar to anyone whose brain refuses to shut up at night. A comfort episode for every neurodivergent night owl who is trying their best — and still ends up wide awake at 2:47am wondering how the hell this keeps happening.

Dive into the quirky thrills that make neurodivergent lives spark with joy! From the bliss of new socks to the unexpected delight of forgotten packages, every moment is a dopamine boost. Discover the joy of music-video walks and the satisfaction of finding mistakes in spreadsheets. Enjoy cozy rituals like clean sheets and binge-worthy cleaning videos, plus the magic of roaming bookshops. Join the fun as they celebrate unique obsessions and the meaningful connections made with fellow neurodivergent friends!

In this episode of LATE BLOOMERS, Rich and Rox finally talk about unmasking — pretending to be someone you’re not, pretending to be neurotypical, pretending you’re fine, and pretending you don’t have needs. Rich shares how his old mask looked like being the “life and soul of the party,” hyper-masculine and always social, while Rox talks about hiding chaos, messy flats, people-pleasing, fawning, and lying about things like lateness out of shame. They explore why neurodivergent people mask — to fit in, avoid rejection, and feel acceptable — and the cost of it: exhaustion, anxiety, overwhelm, and relationships where the real you is never seen. Rich and Rox share personal moments of overstimulation, needing quiet rooms, crying, mouldy cups, chaotic homes, and acting through fear of being “caught out.” They also talk about how unmasking takes time, feels awkward, and starts with small truths shared with the safest person. And even though it’s scary, they show why it leads to more connection, more honesty, and finally being known for who you really are. 20% off Loop Earplugs: https://www.loopearplugs.com/pages/lp-adhdlove

What happens when life starts going right… and your brain still whispers, “You don’t deserve this”? In this episode of LATE BLOOMERS, Rich and Rox talk honestly about imposter syndrome — especially when you’re a late bloomer who never expected life to look like this. From waiting to be “found out,” to secretly believing success is luck, not earned, they break down the sneaky ways self-doubt shows up even when you're thriving. They explore how childhood experiences wire us to minimise ourselves, why confidence doesn't automatically grow with achievements, and how shame can hitch a ride on success just as easily as failure. And most importantly — they share gentle, practical ways to catch those thoughts, build self-trust, and learn to stand in what you've built without cringing, apologising, or shrinking. Tender, honest, and funny in the very human way only these two do it — this episode is a reminder that you don’t have to feel like you belong to actually belong. You earned this. Now let’s learn to believe it.

Birthdays are meant to be joyful… right? So why do they so often come with pressure, comparison, anxiety, and that quiet feeling of I should be happier than this? In this episode of LATE BLOOMERS, Rich and Rox talk honestly about the emotional hangover that can hit around birthdays — especially when you’re feeling behind, overwhelmed by expectations, or carrying grief into another year. From childhood memories and milestone shame to the fear of ageing, loneliness, and the desire to feel seen, they unpack why birthdays can sting even when life is good. They also explore how to turn birthdays into something gentler: a chance to celebrate growth, honour who you are now, and find gratitude without forcing joy or pretending everything’s perfect. Tender, relatable, and funny in all the right places — this episode is a reminder that getting older isn’t something to fear. It’s something to live through, learn from, and sometimes cry about… then eat cake anyway. 🎂

Let’s talk about the spark. The one that doesn’t come from lingerie, role-play, or awkward “date nights with expectations.” In this episode of LATE BLOOMERS, Rich and Rox get real about the non sex sex stuff — the everyday things that quietly build (or kill) intimacy in long-term relationships. From body confidence and anger repression to sensory pleasure, deep chats, and clean sheets, they unpack ten surprisingly simple ways to feel close again without costumes or pressure. Expect laughter (Chewbacca costumes included), awkward confessions, and some genuinely life-changing insights about connection, confidence, and the psychology of desire. Whether you’re in a dry spell or just craving more closeness, this is your permission slip to rebuild intimacy one small step at a time.

If you could travel back in time, what would you tell your 18, 25, and 35-year-old self? In this episode, Rich and Rox climb into the metaphorical time machine to revisit the versions of themselves who were lost, reckless, hopeful, and still figuring it all out. From first heartbreaks to career chaos, from finding purpose to learning how to love — they explore what they’d do differently, what they’d do exactly the same, and what every version of them most needed to hear. This is a conversation about perspective, forgiveness, and the surprising beauty of hindsight.

From the thermostat wars to the dishwasher showdown, Rich and Rox are going head to head in THE GREAT DEBATE. In this episode of LATE BLOOMERS, they settle (or at least try to) the 10 ridiculous fights every neurodivergent couple has had. Expect passionate arguments, zero logic, and a lot of love underneath the chaos. Whether it’s about time blindness, cleaning styles, or who left the light on again, this one’s for every ADHD and autism duo just trying to survive domestic life without a referee. Because underneath the bickering is something universal: the way neurodivergent love can be messy, funny, frustrating, and full of misunderstanding, yet still completely magical. This episode will make you laugh, cringe, and probably text your partner to say, “We’ve had that fight too.” 20% off Loop EarPlugs here: ⁠https://www.loopearplugs.com/pages/lp-adhdlove⁠

Discover a transformative approach to ADHD that emphasizes acceptance over self-fixation. The hosts reveal how shame and perfectionism fuel symptoms, while compassion can lead to real change. They share practical strategies, like speaking kindly to yourself and embracing vulnerability, to enhance daily life. By focusing on individual strengths and rethinking expectations, listeners learn to channel their energy into what truly matters. Ultimately, they reassure that embracing who you are can pave the way for thriving.

Growing up was supposed to be freedom, fun, and finally having it all figured out. Instead, adulthood turned out to be overdrafts, dodgy landlords, endless to-do lists, and the creeping horror of back pain that won’t go away. In this episode of LATE BLOOMERS, Rich and Rox pull apart the 10 biggest adulthood panics — from money meltdowns and career crises, to family drama, social pressure, health scares, and that 3 a.m. voice asking “is this it?”  With honesty, humour, and more than a few rants, they get real about why no one actually feels like they’ve got it together, and why maybe that’s okay. Whether you’re drowning in laundry, dodging wedding invites, or just wondering when life is supposed to get fun, this episode will make you laugh, wince, and feel a little less alone in the chaos.