The Daily Stoic

Sometimes You Just Lose (But That’s No Excuse) | A Proper Frame Of Mind

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Feb 2, 2026
A reflection on accepting losses without surrendering the fight for change. Historical examples show causes can outlive defeat. Practical Stoic tools for resisting impulses and reclaiming freedom from habits and devices. A call to frame thoughts like an elder and persist despite setbacks.
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INSIGHT

Loss Is Part Of Moral Struggle

  • Sometimes the morally right side loses repeatedly and for a long time.
  • Ryan Holiday says accepting loss doesn't mean accepting the status quo; perseverance matters.
ANECDOTE

Stoics Who Lost But Inspired Later Change

  • Ryan recounts Stoics like Thrasia, Rutilius Rufus, Musonius Rufus and Cato who faced execution, exile, or suicide.
  • He notes their examples later inspired change despite immediate failure.
INSIGHT

Accept Losses Without Surrendering

  • Accept immediate losses without surrendering your aim or giving in to despair.
  • Persistence can eventually produce outcomes like Nero's fall or progress on civil rights.
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