Synergistic Stepparenting Podcast #59: Covert Abuse with Allison Dagney: Part 1
Hey Stepparents,
I’ve been under the weather and lost my voice and therefore wasn’t able to record portions of my episode which is why I haven’t put out an episode for a couple of weeks. But I’m thrilled to be feeling better and to pick right up where we left off.
In my last episode, I shared my story of covert abuse, discussing what I endured, how I got there, contributing factors, as well as what my realizations, takeaways and outlook has been since healing from this experience. Find the show notes at synergisticstepparenting.com/58.
Today I’m thrilled to bring to you an interview with Allison Dagney, who is a covert abuse survivor, author of When Tears Leave Scars – her personal memoir – and a rapid reprogramming coach for others who have been through the painful experience of emotional abuse.
In this episode we clarify what emotional abuse is, what keeps the victim in the relationship, how abusers find their victims, and specific examples of emotional abuse so that those going through it can identify if it’s happening to them.
I feel grateful to have had this conversation with Allison who so openly shared her experience of covert abuse and broke down the tactics and nuances in a tangible and easy-to-understand way.
It was healing to discuss this subject matter with someone who deeply understands the experience on a personal level, has done the work to heal her own wounds and is wholeheartedly committed to helping others heal theirs too.
Get comfy and settle in for this eye-opening conversation that is sure to give you new insights into yourself and your intimate relationships. It’ll be worth the listen.
Find the show notes for this episode at synergisticstepparenting.com/59.
Topics Covered:
- Introducing Allison Dagney
- What emotional abuse is
- What keeps the victim in the cycle of abuse
- How abusers find their victims
- Specific details and examples of emotional abuse
- What is a trauma bond
- What is gaslighting
- What is bread-crumbing
- Talking to kids about Emotional Abuse
- Action Items
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