everybody has a secret

the stay or go special (take four)

Jul 4, 2024
Join Joanna Fleming, co-host of 'Style-ish' and a freelance dermal therapist, as she dives into the complexities of relationships. They tackle the tough decisions of staying or going—discussing scenarios like being with the right person at the wrong time and confronting infidelity. Joanna shares personal anecdotes while emphasizing the importance of communication and self-discovery. The conversation also touches on the emotional challenges of engagement and relocation, ensuring listeners find humor amidst life's ups and downs.
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ANECDOTE

Right Person, Wrong Time Or Cheating Pattern

  • Emma met Cam, bonded deeply, then discovered he had a girlfriend and spent four months seeing both women simultaneously.
  • Hosts highlighted his pattern of enjoying both relationships and judged Emma for staying despite knowing he was attached.
ADVICE

Don't Wait For A Cheater's Decision

  • Do not give ultimatums when someone has shown they prefer having both partners; their inaction is informative.
  • If you feel mistrust or pattern of cheating, cut ties rather than wait for them to choose.
INSIGHT

Charm Doesn't Equal Trustworthiness

  • Charming romantic gestures don't erase character flaws or risky behaviour.
  • Hosts cautioned against romanticising 'made-me-breakfast' moments as proof of long-term trustworthiness.
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