The Trouble with Sex What Is Your Blueprint for Pleasure?
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Feb 26, 2024 
Explore the transformative power of recognizing diverse forms of sexual expression through the concept of erotic blueprints. Uncover hidden desires, navigate sexual challenges with empathy and creativity, and prioritize pleasure for healing and empowerment. Delve into personal growth, self-discovery, and understanding individual erotic languages to enhance relationships and find joy in sexual experiences.
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Sexologist In A Sexless Marriage
- Jaiya was in a sexless marriage despite being a sexologist, which led her to uncover missing erotic vocabulary in herself and her partner.
- Once they learned each other's blueprints and practiced new skills, their sex life became hot and fulfilling again.
People Are Wired Differently
- Jaiya discovered erotic blueprints after seeing a client respond erotically to nonstandard touch and realizing people are wired differently.
- She created five blueprints to map arousal patterns and explain mismatched sexual dynamics.
Five Distinct Turn-On Patterns
- The five erotic blueprints are Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, and Shapeshifter, each with distinct turn-ons and shadows.
- Shadow aspects (shame, dissociation, narrow definitions) often hide true arousal and block pleasure.