Explore the transformative power of recognizing diverse forms of sexual expression through the concept of erotic blueprints. Uncover hidden desires, navigate sexual challenges with empathy and creativity, and prioritize pleasure for healing and empowerment. Delve into personal growth, self-discovery, and understanding individual erotic languages to enhance relationships and find joy in sexual experiences.
Understanding and speaking your partner's erotic blueprint can lead to a more satisfying sexual relationship.
Each erotic blueprint pairing offers unique superpowers and challenges, emphasizing communication and exploration for sexual alignment.
Deep dives
Understanding Erotic Blueprints and Sexual Fulfillment
Erotic blueprints serve as a map of arousal, revealing specific erotic languages and patterns for sexual fulfillment. These blueprints, including energetic, sensual, sexual, kinky, and shapeshifter, highlight different turn-ons and shadows in sexual dynamics. Understanding and speaking your partner's blueprint can lead to a more satisfying sexual relationship. Personal growth and exploration within these blueprints can enhance intimacy and pleasure.
Navigating Different Erotic Blueprints
Having different erotic blueprints with your partner doesn't mean doom. Each blueprint pairing offers unique superpowers and challenges. Willingness to learn, communicate, and explore together is key to sexual alignment and satisfaction. Recognizing the diversity of erotic languages and adapting to feed each blueprint can lead to a holistic and fulfilling sexual connection.
Healing from Trauma and Embracing Pleasure
Trauma can impact one's relationship with pleasure, but healing and exploring pleasure can be pivotal in recovery. Understanding triggers, practicing consent, and utilizing various modalities like vagal stimulation and psychedelic therapy can support healing and rewiring of neural pathways. Cultivating pleasure as a path to healing trauma can empower individuals to reclaim their sexuality and well-being.
Fostering Intimacy and Consciousness in Relationships
The absence of intentionality and consciousness in sexual relationships can lead to suppressed desires and shadow aspects of sexuality. Embracing pleasure as a sacred and intentional practice can enhance sexual connections. Prioritizing pleasure, curiosity, and communication in relationships can transform challenges into opportunities for growth, exploration, and sustained intimacy.
Dr. Tammy talks with Jaiya, the award-winning somatic sexologist and author of Your Blueprint for Pleasure, about how discovering what turns you on can help you take control of your pleasure, have amazing sex, rekindle the spark in the bedroom, heal past trauma, and empower your relationship and your spirit.
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Jaiya is an award -winning somatic sex sexologist, author of books including Your Blueprint for Pleasure and co-author of Red Hot Touch. She also starred in Netflix's Sex, Love & goop about what drives sexual attraction, passion and erotic fulfillment.
Jaiya is also the Founder of the The Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ . For over three decades, Jaiya has been immersed in the study of turn-ons, ancient erotic rituals, tantric sex, mastery of sensual touch, pure erotic play, kinky dynamics, and the biology and psychology of attraction and sexual fulfillment. She works with all kinds of bodies and sexual orientations, and through observation and clinical research, she discovered the Erotic Blueprint™, a map of arousal that reveals one’s specific erotic language and patterning and helps create a path forward to greater sexual fulfillment.
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