Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy 476: Our Caring Response
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Jan 24, 2025 Laurie and George delve into the essential Care Giving cycle in partnerships. They discuss how emotional and sexual dynamics intertwine, emphasizing the significance of understanding and communication. Misunderstandings, particularly in parent-child communication, are explored, highlighting the need for openness. The role of curiosity as a tool to combat defensiveness is examined. The conversation also navigates the delicate balance between desire and caregiving, where empathy and vulnerability are vital for deeper connections.
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Caregiving Cycle Dynamics
- The caregiving cycle is a reciprocal response to emotional and sexual needs in relationships.
- When partners' emotional needs are triggered, it can block the caregiving response, hindering healing and connection.
Misinterpreted Texts
- George Fallow shares an example of a son feeling criticized by his mom's texts.
- This illustrates how good intentions can be misinterpreted, highlighting the need for curiosity in caregiving.
Cultivate Curiosity
- Curiosity is the antidote to defensiveness in any relationship cycle.
- Try to understand your partner's perspective, even if it differs from your own.