Understanding the Caregiving Cycle

The caregiving cycle involves the reciprocal responses to emotional and sexual attachment needs between partners. When one partner expresses emotional distress, it can trigger a defensive response in the other, which blocks the caregiving instinct. For instance, if one partner shares feelings of neglect, the receiving partner may feel criticized and withdraw instead of offering support. Recognizing when to shift from a defensive emotional response to a caregiving approach is crucial for fostering connection and healing in the relationship.