PsycHacks Episode 371: Women need game too (understanding how women get commitment)
Oct 27, 2023
Exploring the dynamics of dating, this episode focuses on how women can use their game to secure commitment from men. It discusses the importance of attractiveness and skills in cultivating a committed relationship and highlights the concept of 'women's game.' Additionally, it emphasizes the significance of having game to attract high-value men and how simply waiting or wanting is not enough. Finally, it delves into the evolving value of sex in today's dating market and provides actionable steps to improve one's dating life.
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Women Often Want Relationship, Not Casual Sex
- Women often don't enter dates hoping for sex; they want relationships and find dating a necessary evil.
- Sex on early dates typically happens because men had the intention and the skill to guide the interaction.
Commitment Often Comes From Female Initiative
- Most men start dates seeking sex, not marriage, and still end up in committed relationships sometimes.
- Those relationships happen because women had the intention and the skill to steer the connection toward commitment.
Male Optionality Creates Vulnerability
- Men are often satisfied keeping things casual because they primarily seek sex and avoid extra emotional labor.
- This hunger for sex makes men vulnerable to being steered by women who know how to earn commitment.