099 - Easiest Point Of Entry and Some ADHD/Normie Thoughts
Jul 31, 2023
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The podcast discusses challenges faced by individuals with ADHD and comorbid depression. The host explores the concept of hyperfocus and the unique abilities of those with ADHD. They also discuss the concept of half-assing as a way to give their best effort and finding the easiest point of entry to overcome resistance. Tips on breaking out of paralysis and tackling tasks are provided.
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Embrace the concept of 'half-assing' as a form of giving normie-level effort for individuals with ADHD, acknowledging that their ADHD hyperfocus is equivalent to a normie 200% effort.
Find the easiest point of entry into tasks as a way to overcome paralysis and move forward, by starting with small nudges and breaking the task into simple steps.
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Overcoming the Struggle to Get Started
The speaker discusses the difficulty he experiences in getting started on tasks due to his ADHD and depression. He describes the internal conflict and tension he feels when facing simple chores like doing the laundry, which seems overwhelming and goes against his inner values. He acknowledges that while he knows how to do the task, he struggles with taking the first step. The speaker introduces the concept of 'half-assing' as a way to give a normie 100% effort, which may be perceived as effortlessness for someone with ADHD. He suggests starting with small nudges and finding the easiest point of entry into a task as a means to break out of paralysis and move forward.
The Language of Half-Assing and Embracing Individuality
The speaker delves into the concept of half-assing and how it differs from the normie belief of giving 110% effort. He emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself and finding a language that works for the individual, rather than trying to fit into the norms of the neurotypical world. He equates the experience of individuals with ADHD to being like rocket ships firing on all cylinders, achieving extraordinary levels of creativity and hyperfocus. However, he warns against prolonged effort at this level leading to burnout and eventually causing depression and immobility.
The Easiest Point of Entry and Breaking Out of Paralysis
The speaker introduces the concept of the easiest point of entry as a solution to the inner resistance and paralysis experienced by those with ADHD. By identifying the first simple action or step in a task, such as opening the dishwasher or picking up a shirt, one can break the cycle of immobility. This approach helps to shift focus away from the overwhelming vision of the entire task and allows for incremental progress. The speaker urges listeners to try this technique, see how it feels, and share their experiences.
If you get nothing else from this episode, please know that when you give 50%, that's more than likely a normie 100%. It's scientific math...don't fact check me on it... ; An ADHD hyperfocus is equal to a normie 200%, so when people ask me why I'm cool with half-assing it, it's not because I believe in permissive laziness, it's because that's whole-assing to a normie.
I'm pretty sure I'm right.
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