The importance of healing childhood trauma with Mathew Blades
Dec 12, 2023
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Mathew Blades, former radio host, discusses his battle with panic attacks and the impact on his relationship. Importance of healing childhood trauma and its effect on relationships. Power of empathy and self-acceptance in fostering healthy relationships. Trusting intuition and taking action in relationships. Importance of sharing personal stories and self-care strategies. Recognizing when something feels off and seeking resolution.
Addressing childhood trauma is crucial for personal growth and healthier relationships.
Engaging in therapies such as meditation, breathwork, and sound therapy can help address mental health challenges.
Trust your intuition and take action to address any feeling of something being wrong in your life.
Deep dives
Recognizing the importance of self-care
The speaker reflects on the common messaging from childhood that prioritized the needs of others over his own. However, after a life-changing retreat a couple of years ago, he acknowledges the value in taking care of himself and the positive impact it has on his relationships with his wife, kids, and family. This realization has led him to prioritize self-care, including regular workouts and getting enough rest.
Matthew Blades' journey of self-discovery and mental health struggles
Matthew Blades, a prominent figure in the media industry, shares his experience of stepping away from his successful career due to struggles with mental health, burnout, and anxiety. He discusses the physical manifestations of his mental health issues, such as shingles and panic attacks. Through therapy, retreats, and self-reflection, Matthew began to address the underlying trauma from his childhood, including exposure to pornography, growing up with an alcoholic father, and the loss of his dad at a young age.
The importance of seeking help and embracing personal transformation
Matthew emphasizes the significance of seeking help and engaging in therapies such as meditation, breathwork, and sound therapy to address mental health challenges. He mentions that everyone's journey is different, but a combination of settling the mind, exploring therapy options, and engaging in transformative ceremonies can lead to profound shifts in one's life. Matthew encourages individuals to embrace their life's purpose and take steps towards fulfilling it.
Acknowledging Something Feels Off
If you feel like something is wrong or off in your life, trust your intuition. Acknowledge that something is off and give yourself credit for paying attention to yourself. Don't dismiss or ignore it. Take the time to reflect and assess what might be causing this feeling, even if you can't pinpoint it. It's worth exploring and figuring out, especially if it has been bothering you for a while.
Taking the Next Best Step
Once you acknowledge that something feels off, take action and keep moving forward. This doesn't necessarily mean physical movement, but rather taking steps to address the issue. Start by focusing on self-care, as it plays an essential role in healing and finding balance. Take care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally. Notice patterns and behaviors that need attention and work on your mind through practices like meditation, prayer, or breathwork. Keep moving and seeking what resonates with you on your journey towards healing and self-improvement.
In this week's episode, Aro Co-Founder Joey sits down with Mathew Blades, former award-winning radio host and creator of the Learn From People Who Lived It podcast. Mathew opens up about his battle with panic attacks at the peak of his career and how it affected his relationship with his wife. He and Joey discuss the significance of addressing trauma, especially experiences from childhood, through inner child work. Mathew shares how doing this personal work has made a big difference in how he shows up as a father and husband. You'll gain valuable strategies and tools from Mathew on how to navigate and heal from trauma, including the importance of settling the mind and trusting your instincts when something feels off. Tune in for an authentic and insightful discussion on mental health and self-awareness.