Understanding the Tendency to Fix Others in Relationships

In relationships, there is often a tendency for people to seek out partners who have some form of deficiency or brokenness, believing that they can help fix and transform them. However, when a person who is not healed themselves finds a healthy partner who is already working on personal growth, they may struggle to be content and happy in the relationship. This is because they are attempting to fix themselves through fixing others, rather than focusing on their own healing and growth.