The Kink Consultant Ep 44 - What It’s Really Like Working as a Professional Dom: Behind the Scenes with Mistress Verna Part 2
Aug 6, 2025
Mistress Verna, a retired professional dominatrix, shares her intriguing insights from years spent in a dungeon. She reflects on the complexities of client relationships, revealing emotional aftermath and unexpected confessions that often arose during sessions. Verna discusses how her work expanded her understanding of sexuality and boundaries, while also emphasizing the importance of consent and personal agency. Listeners gain a glimpse into the skills acquired through this unique profession and the deep connections made with clients over time.
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Career Arc And Aging In The Dungeon
- Long-term dungeon work changes who you attract and how often you work.
- Aging, client preferences, and skill needs can push a dom to retire or shift roles.
Exposure Expands Sexual Literacy
- Dungeon work exposes you to a wide range of sexual interests and practices.
- Learning from other women and witnessing unusual kinks broadened their sexual vocabulary.
Monitor And Adjust During Sessions
- Read clients in-session and change approach if they're not responding.
- Use timing and intuition to end sessions without rushing the emotional transition.