Dr. Shiloh and Dr. Scott are forensic psychologists known from 'LA Not So Confidential'. In this discussion, they reveal the chilling dynamics of growing up with heavy medication and manipulation within family structures. They explore the emotional impacts of psychiatric responsibilities and the devastating effects of intrafamilial abuse. The dialogue also delves into themes of narcissism, resilience, and the importance of community support in fostering healthy development. Prepare for deep insights into the complexities of mental health and family dynamics.
The podcast emphasizes the detrimental effects of administering powerful psychiatric medications to children, which can stifle their emotional and developmental growth.
It critiques the use of manipulative parenting tactics, such as contracts, that can confuse children and distort their understanding of trust and authority.
Deep dives
Impact of Heavy Medication on Children
The podcast discusses the troubling practice of administering heavy psychiatric medications to children, highlighting the personal experiences of the speakers who were prescribed powerful drugs like Triazolam and Seroquel at a young age. These medications, which are typically used for treating severe anxiety and mood disorders in adults, can have profoundly negative effects on children's development and emotional growth. The speakers express concern that the availability of such medications was not based on professional diagnosis, suggesting that it may have been a misguided form of control by their father. This misuse of drugs is portrayed as harmful, both physically and psychologically, ultimately stunting the ability of children to appropriately process their emotions.
Manipulative Contracts in Parenting
The conversation delves into the controversial notion of using contracts in parenting, particularly in the context of managing children’s behavior. The hosts critique the use of excessively formal agreements that their father imposed, pointing out that such practices are not suitable or ethical for children, regardless of their behavior issues. They discuss the inconsistencies and changing expectations involved in these contracts, which led to confusion and reinforced feelings of inadequacy. This approach exemplifies how manipulative parenting can distort a child's understanding of trust and authority, leaving them vulnerable to further psychological harm.
Parental Role Reversals and Abuse
The podcast examines the dynamics of parental roles, especially how a father's need for emotional support after a loss can lead to abusive situations. It highlights the phenomenon where an eldest daughter may be coerced into fulfilling emotional or domestic roles typically reserved for a spouse, a scenario that can escalate into sexual abuse. The speakers emphasize the importance of recognizing inappropriate responsibilities placed on children, particularly in single-parent situations where the line between caregiving and exploitation can blur. This discussion reminds listeners of the potential for harm when parents fail to maintain appropriate boundaries with their children.
Creating Alternate Realities
The speakers reflect on the creation of alternate realities by individuals with severe personality disorders, particularly in relation to their father’s behavior and narrative. They illustrate how he constructed a detailed persona of himself as both a victim and a hero in various scenarios, including fabricated stories about his past and experiences in war. This manipulation led not only to family confusion but also to a broader misconception of identity and history as shared by multiple family members. The discussion raises awareness of how persistent deception can alter perceptions and affect interpersonal relationships across generations.
In this episode, while the timeline of Alissa's case is paused I speak with Dr. Shiloh and Dr. Scott, Psychologists from the L.A. Not So Confidential Podcast to give more insight to what Alissa and I may have been experiencing growing up.
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Voices for Justice is a podcast that uses adult language and discusses sensitive and potentially triggering topics including violence, abuse, and murder. This podcast may not be appropriate for younger audiences. All parties are innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Some names have been changed or omitted per their request or for safety purposes. Listener discretion is advised.
The introduction music used in Voices for Justice is Thread of Clouds by Blue Dot Sessions. Outro music is Melancholic Ending by Soft and Furious. The track used for ad transitions is Pinky by Blue Dot Sessions.
