562: Nikki Glaser - Life as a Comedian, The Creative Process, Learning From Seinfeld, How To Respond When You Bomb on Stage, Roasting Robert DeNiro, & Telling The Truth
Nikki Glaser, one of the funniest female voices in comedy today, discusses her creative process, overcoming stage fright, the art of roasting, the power of honesty and truth, and pushing past fear. She shares valuable lessons learned from comedy legends Dave Chappelle and Jerry Seinfeld, emphasizes the importance of storytelling for leaders, and discusses the fine line between humor and insensitivity. Nikki's advice: say what's true and embrace your own journey.
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Quick takeaways
Being honest and speaking the truth on stage is key to making people laugh and feel seen.
Receiving honest feedback, even if it may initially sting, helps in personal growth and resilience.
Embracing failures, taking risks, and saying yes to scary opportunities lead to growth and new experiences.
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Nikki Glaser's Journey to Overcome Stage Fright and Pursue Comedy
Nikki Glaser shares her experience of overcoming extreme stage fright in her younger years, which led her to pursue a career in comedy. She discusses the importance of facing fears, saying yes to opportunities that scare you, and embracing the process of constantly learning and growing as a comedian. She highlights the significance of being honest with oneself, calling out truths that others may shy away from, and finding humor in the vulnerabilities and imperfections of life.
The Power of Honest Feedback and Embracing Embarrassing Moments
Nikki Glaser emphasizes the value of receiving honest feedback, even if it may initially sting or feel embarrassing. She shares personal anecdotes of instances where she received candid feedback about body odor and dancing skills, and how these moments prompted her to make positive changes. She discusses the importance of surrounding yourself with people who care enough to provide constructive criticism and the resilience that comes from facing uncomfortable truths.
Lessons in Taking Risks, Embracing Failure, and Finding Growth
Nikki Glaser reflects on the benefits of taking risks and embracing failures throughout her career. She highlights how saying yes to opportunities that scare you opens doors for growth and new experiences. She shares her experience of participating in the Roasts, where she had to deliver sharp and witty jokes under pressure. She also emphasizes the importance of being resilient after facing embarrassing moments, learning from them, and not letting them define your future endeavors.
Importance of saying what's true
Nikki emphasizes the importance of saying what's true in her comedy. She believes that being brutally honest, without being mean, is the key to making people laugh. By speaking the truth, even about sensitive topics, Nikki believes that it helps people feel seen and not ignored. She also acknowledges the power of the fat acceptance movement and the importance of addressing societal issues through comedy.
Just start and embrace failure
Nikki advises aspiring comedians and individuals with big dreams to just start and embrace failure. She encourages taking action, even if it means starting with subpar skills or imperfect products. Nikki also emphasizes the significance of ignoring naysayers and not seeking validation from people who are not pursuing their own dreams. Instead, she suggests finding supportive individuals who believe in your potential.
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Nikki Glaser is one of the funniest female voices in comedy today. For nearly two decades at clubs across the country, stand-up comedian, actress, podcaster, and TV host. In July of 2022, she headlined her first HBO comedy special, GOOD CLEAN FILTH, which has been nominated for a Critics Choice Award for Best Comedy Special. Nikki was a standout at the Comedy Central Roasts of Alec Baldwin, Bruce Willis, and Rob Lowe, which led to her guest-hosting JIMMY KIMMEL LIVE! Nikki is currently on her nationwide and international comedy tour, THE GOOD GIRL TOUR, which kicked off in January 2023. Before coming on The Learning Leader Show, Nikki has done in-depth interviews with Howard Stern, Marc Maron, Conan O'Brien, and Joe Rogan.
Notes:
When Nikki is bombing on stage, she has a great method to reset. "Just say what's true." "Everyone is putting on a mask. Everyone is trying to present in a different way. If you just say what’s true, it’s the funniest.”
Nikki is a professional “noticer of things.” This is why I think great stand-ups are modern-day philosophers. They notice things and then have a way to share them in a unique and funny way with all of us. We laugh because they’ve said what’s true, but have done it in a way that we haven’t thought of before. As leaders, we should be more aware and notice things more often.
The writing process:
"You need to pay attention constantly to everything to see what could potentially be a joke. Sometimes, in the middle of a conversation with a friend, I'll tell them to hold on because I need to take out my phone and type something funny that I just saw. If you don't write it down, you won't remember it."
Just get started. What advice for someone who wants to do something? You have to do it. The way to get good is to get going. Nikki has become one of the premier comedians in the world because she’s pushed past her fear and signed up for the things that she’s not sure she can do. Last comic standing at age 20, celebrity roasts, hosting TV shows. She wasn’t necessarily ready for any of the work she agreed to do, but she did it anyway and then figured it out. We all can learn from that.
Nikki is the voice of Dave Matthews Band radio on Sirius/XM Radio.
She had terrible stage fright when she was younger. Nikki would have insomnia for weeks before a classroom presentation and shake the entire time.
Her first TV appearance was on Last Comic Standing when she was 20. Nikki waited in line at open auditions in Chicago in the snow.
“I always wanted to be a singer. But I think that I’m also someone who’s not very comfortable with sincerity and emotions." (She placed third on her season of The Masked Singer)
Nikki is starting her own Taylor Swift cover band.
Meeting Jerry Seinfeld – “We’re walking through the bowels of the casino, and I get over to his greenroom and he greets me,” Glaser said. “And he was like, ‘I’m such a fan, I’ve watched everything you do. I pull up your YouTube clips all the time whenever I want a laugh. And you’ve got it, girl, you have the voice...’
Jerry Seinfeld identifies “taste and discernment” as the ultimate skill of great artists. In every creative field, Seinfeld says, the dividing line between those who succeed and those who fail is the ability to discern good and bad: “It’s one thing to create,” Seinfeld says. “The other is you have to choose. What are we going to do, and what are we not going to do?’ This is a gigantic aspect of artistic survival. It’s kind of unseen, what’s picked and what is discarded, but mastering that is how you stay alive.”
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