Connected Families Podcast One Simple Question That Rewires Everyone's Brains Toward Connection
Oct 17, 2025
In this enlightening discussion, parenting coach Jim Jackson, known for his work in the Discipline That Connects course, shares transformative techniques to strengthen family connections. He introduces the 'bright spots' approach, urging parents to focus on what’s working instead of just fixing problems. Jim presents a single powerful question to reframe challenging behaviors, demonstrating its impact through relatable examples. He highlights how success memories can replace shame in children's minds, fostering resilience and positive identity.
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Look For Bright Spots First
- Focusing on bright spots shifts attention from fixing failures to amplifying what already works.
- This creates momentum and invites more of the same positive behavior in families.
Ask "What's Going Partly Right?"
- Ask the question: "What's going partly right?" when you notice problems.
- Name small wins aloud to bring grace into challenges and increase cooperative behavior.
Carly's Ski Turnaround
- Krista and Ted's 10-year-old Carly panicked after a ski crash and avoided steep runs.
- Reframing her effort as courage helped her recover confidence and later tackle a steep run with Dad.
