

Why Don’t They Come To You With Problems?
Jun 9, 2023
Discover how your reactions shape your child's willingness to confide in you. Explore the importance of creating a safe space where kids can express their concerns without fear. Reflect on the value of listening over jumping to solutions. Personal stories highlight how self-awareness can transform parenting. Learn about the benefits of therapy in fostering understanding and communication.
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Earning Trust
- If you want your kids to come to you with problems, make yourself approachable.
- Listen, don't rush to judgment, and show them you make things better, not worse.
Why Kids Hide Things
- Children keep secrets from their parents; it's not always about hiding wrongdoing.
- Often, it's because they fear judgment, lack of understanding, or negative reactions.
Therapy as a Positive Example
- Ryan Holiday shares his experience of returning to therapy, even without a major crisis.
- He emphasizes the importance of personal growth as a positive example for his children.