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512: How to reduce anxiety & negative self-talk | Performance psychologist Michael Gervais, Ph.D.

Nov 20, 2023
59:42

“Fear of other people's opinions might be one of the great constrictors for human potential," says Michael Gervais, Ph.D.

Michael, one of the world’s top high-performance psychologists, joins us for a master class on reducing anxiety, boosting self confidence, and overcoming FOPO— the fear of other people’s opinions—plus:

- What is FOPO & why is it detrimental? (~00:18)

- How to know if you suffer from FOPO (~07:55)

- When comparison can be a motivator (~09:27)

- The recipe for long-lasting happiness (~12:57)

- How to actually measure self-worth (~15:12)

- How to raise genuinely happy kids (~18:46)

- How to build confidence (~25:35)

- How to reduce performance anxiety (~29:33)

- How to limit negative self-talk (~34:47)

- How to stop prioritizing other people’s opinions (~38:41)

- The power of the Barry Manilow effect (~43:20)

- How to become a better friend (~48:42)

- Who Michael wants to work with next (~51:34)

- Standout people Michael has worked with (~53:27)

- How to invest in your own psychology (~57:12)


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Referenced in the episode:

- Michael's book, The First Rule of Mastery: Stop Worrying about What People Think of You.

- "The Good Life" Harvard study.

- The Barry Manilow study.

- Sign up for The Long Game


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