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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

Is Disrespect a Tantrum in Disguise?

Oct 8, 2024
A frustrated parent grapples with their 7-year-old's rude behavior, raising questions about underlying emotions. The discussion highlights how older children's tantrums resemble those of toddlers, emphasizing empathy and connection. Strategies for addressing feelings of overwhelm and maintaining boundaries are explored. The importance of a compassionate response to emotional outbursts is stressed, helping parents navigate these challenging dynamics.
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Quick takeaways

  • Children's seemingly disrespectful behaviors often stem from emotional struggles and should be viewed as signals for connection rather than defiance.
  • Understanding the context of a child's reactions, particularly during transitions, helps parents provide empathetic support while maintaining necessary boundaries.

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The Importance of Understanding Child Behavior

Tantrums in young children are common and are often signals of overwhelm rather than outright defiance. It's essential for parents to understand that children's behavior, including older kids exhibiting sass or backtalk, may stem from feelings of frustration or sadness rather than a desire to be disrespectful. Recognizing this can help parents respond more effectively, as behaviors like kicking or shouting can be cries for connection and support. Acknowledging that these behaviors can indicate emotional struggles rather than merely being disobedience can change the approach to discipline and connection.

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