Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

Is Disrespect a Tantrum in Disguise?

Oct 8, 2024
A frustrated parent grapples with their 7-year-old's rude behavior, raising questions about underlying emotions. The discussion highlights how older children's tantrums resemble those of toddlers, emphasizing empathy and connection. Strategies for addressing feelings of overwhelm and maintaining boundaries are explored. The importance of a compassionate response to emotional outbursts is stressed, helping parents navigate these challenging dynamics.
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INSIGHT

Older Child Tantrums

  • Older children's challenging behaviors can be their version of a tantrum.
  • These behaviors often stem from feeling overwhelmed, similar to toddlers.
ANECDOTE

7-Year-Old's Behavior

  • A 7-year-old boy displays sass, attitude, and physical aggression towards his parents.
  • He kicks, uses defiant language like "shut up," and pretends to slap his mother.
ADVICE

Trust Parental Intuition

  • Parents often intuitively understand their child's behavior.
  • Step back from immediate reactions to gain a clearer perspective.
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