The Dr. John Delony Show My Husband Constantly Lies About Money (Why?)
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Jan 7, 2026 A woman grapples with her husband's financial secrecy, feeling betrayed after years of hidden money. The discussion highlights the destructive patterns of blame and anger within their relationship. As trust erodes, advice leans towards creating transparency and shared financial goals. Meanwhile, another caller navigates his wife's radical skepticism, showcasing the impact of social media on family dynamics. The podcast emphasizes fostering compassion over confrontation and prioritizing connection to rebuild intimacy.
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Paychecks Hidden During Shutdown
- Marie discovered during the government shutdown that her husband told her he wasn't getting paid while he actually was.
- He justified it by saying each paycheck 'might be the last one,' which Marie felt was a lie and betrayal.
Scarcity History Drives Secrecy
- Past scarcity often drives present secrecy; people who grew up broke may hoard or hide money to feel control.
- Recognizing that history helps move from blame to curiosity about why secrecy happens.
Lead With Ownership And A Simple Ask
- Lead with humility: bring his favorite coffee, own your anger, and invite a nonjudgmental conversation about finances.
- Then ask a clear yes/no: "Are you in?" and be prepared to act based on the answer.