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The Art of Manliness

The Fascinating Differences Between Male and Female Friendships

Jun 26, 2024
Dr. Jaimie Krems, a social psychologist at UCLA, delves into the fascinating world of male and female friendships. She reveals how women’s friendships are typically deeper and more emotionally intimate, while men’s are broader and more resilience-focused. The discussion highlights differences in the longevity of friendships, emotional tolerance, and the complexities of jealousy. Krems also explores why men and women seek cross-gender friendships and how these dynamics evolve throughout life, shedding light on the intricacies that shape our social circles.
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Quick takeaways

  • Men and women value friendships for different reasons: men seek resources and support, while women seek emotional intimacy and trust.
  • Men prioritize larger, functional networks, whereas women prefer fewer, emotionally intense connections.

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Differences in Male and Female Friendships

Men and women approach friendships differently based on evolutionary perspectives. Friendships serve as social insurance, connecting individuals who can reciprocally support each other in times of need. Men form friendships for resource access and mutual support, while women's friendships act as kin replacements due to historical mating patterns. Men prioritize larger, looser networks, while women seek emotionally intense, one-on-one relationships.

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