Do you really know? How can I recognise a flying monkey, the narcissistic abuser’s best friend?
Jan 23, 2025
The podcast dives into the intriguing role of 'flying monkeys' in narcissistic abuse dynamics. These enablers assist narcissistic abusers by spreading misinformation and perpetuating control. Discover where this term comes from and how these manipulative accomplices are chosen. Listeners are equipped with strategies to recognize their behaviors and set boundaries to reclaim their power. It's a captivating exploration of the complex relationships surrounding narcissistic abuse and the vital role of these unwitting enablers.
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Flying Monkeys in Narcissistic Abuse
- Narcissistic abusers (NAs) employ accomplices, known as "flying monkeys," to manipulate and control their victims.
- These accomplices help maintain the abuser's power and spread misinformation.
Origin of "Flying Monkey"
- The term "flying monkey" originates from "The Wizard of Oz," where the Wicked Witch uses flying monkeys to terrorize Dorothy.
- This mirrors how NAs use accomplices to carry out their harmful actions.
Characteristics of Flying Monkeys
- NAs often choose flying monkeys with low self-esteem who are easily manipulated.
- These individuals may also unconsciously benefit from their complicit role.