Getting an IUD, Losing My Period & Having an Identity Crisis
Nov 1, 2023
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Topics discussed in this episode include getting an IUD, the pain and discomfort of the procedure, the cost of birth control, healthcare inequities, and the benefits of a baby sleep sack. They also talk about enjoying the present moment, their family dynamic, and their enthusiasm for a new song.
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Quick takeaways
Getting an IUD can be uncomfortable during insertion but relatively quick and painless during removal.
Feeling content with their current family dynamic, the speaker emphasizes not needing a girl to complete their family.
Being present in the moment with young children is important, resisting the urge to constantly plan for the future.
Deep dives
Experience with IUD insertion and removal
The speaker shares their personal experience with getting an IUD inserted and removed. They explain that getting the IUD inserted was uncomfortable but not overly painful, while the removal was relatively quick and painless. The speaker also mentions that they did not have a period while using the IUD.
Contentment with having two boys and family planning
The speaker expresses their satisfaction with having two boys and their family feeling complete. They discuss how they don't feel the need to have a girl to complete their family and how they are content with their current family dynamic. They also mention that they are open to having more children but are not actively trying at the moment.
Being present in the present and future plans
The speaker emphasizes the importance of being present in the current moment with their young children and cherishing the time they have together. They discuss the temptation to constantly think about the future and make plans, but acknowledge the value of enjoying the present. The speaker also mentions the desire to go on family trips and live in the moment as a young family.
Love languages and relationship dynamics
In this episode, the hosts discuss the importance of understanding each other's love languages in a relationship. They acknowledge that they have different love languages, with one valuing acts of service and the other words of affirmation. They reflect on how understanding and actively practicing each other's love languages can enhance their connection and show appreciation. They also mention the need to focus on each other and step up their game in prioritizing each other's love languages.
The IUD insertion process and experiences
The hosts share their experiences with the IUD insertion process. They discuss the steps involved, such as cleaning and measuring, and the use of numbing spray. They assure listeners that the procedure is generally bearable, comparing the pain to a cramp or a pinch. They mention the importance of finding a competent practitioner and highlight that individual experiences may vary. Additionally, they touch upon the topic of potential risks, side effects, and the need to follow up for string checkups.
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Abby got an IUD for the 2nd time. In this episode, we talked about Abby's experiences with birth control, the possibility of Mat getting a vasectomy and Abby's identity crisis as someone who married and had kids young.
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