Calm Parenting Podcast School Is Not That Important (& What IS Important) #524
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Oct 5, 2025 Many children dislike school, but that doesn't dictate their future success. Emphasizing that academic performance isn't the sole predictor of life achievement, the discussion explores how learning can take many forms. Kids may rebel against traditional schooling due to boredom or personal challenges, and taking nontraditional paths can foster resilience. Parents are encouraged to release control, allowing kids to pursue their passions, leading to stronger relationships and self-discovery. In the end, it's about cultivating natural talents rather than battling over grades.
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School Grades Aren't Destiny
- School performance is not a reliable predictor of life success or happiness.
- Judging a child's future by school metrics overlooks many real-world skills employers value.
Make A School Vs Life Skills List
- Draw two columns: skills needed for school versus life and compare them.
- Use the list to reframe priorities and spot which school skills are arbitrary.
Different Skillsets: Classroom Vs Workplace
- School rewards sitting still, memorization, timed tests, and following directions.
- Real-world success rewards critical thinking, decision-making, risk-taking, and leadership.