This podcast explores the impact of isolation and loneliness on autistic individuals, discussing the negative effects on mental health and the difficulties faced in social interactions. It delves into the complex relationship between enjoying solitude and struggling with feelings of isolation, and provides strategies for combating loneliness by engaging in activities and seeking support from the autistic community.
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Autistics value alone-time but excessive isolation can lead to loneliness and detrimental effects on their well-being.
To cope with isolation, autistic individuals can engage in activities with friends, exercise, converse with older people or children, and stay in contact with others through email or phone.
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Reasons for Autistic Isolation
Autistic individuals often feel like outsiders and struggle with fitting in. This sense of being different can lead to a preference for being alone, as it allows them to be themselves without judgment or criticism. However, the fear of social situations and the energy required for social interaction can also contribute to isolation. Dread and anxiety about upcoming events and appointments can cause autistics to avoid social contact, which further perpetuates their isolation.
Effects of Isolation and Loneliness
Isolation and loneliness can have significant impacts on the mental and physical health of autistic individuals. Studies have found links between social isolation and depression, impaired cognitive function, poor sleep quality, cardiovascular issues, and impaired immunity. Isolation can lead to a drop in energy levels and reduced interest in hobbies or activities. Autistics may cope by imagining an idealized social life or engaging in self-protective behaviors, but ultimately, loneliness and isolation can have detrimental effects on their well-being.
Strategies to Combat Isolation and Loneliness
To alleviate isolation and loneliness, autistic individuals can take small steps to engage with the world around them. This can include going outside, participating in activities with friends (preferably one-on-one or with a structured focus), exercising to boost energy levels, people-watching to feel connected, and conversing with older people or children who may have interesting stories to share. Staying in contact with others through email, text, or phone is also important. Interacting with other autistics can provide a supportive and understanding community that reduces feelings of judgment and isolation.
Autistics value alone-time but there’s a risk that too much can lead to isolation and loneliness. Listen to this episode to learn what it looks like and a few things that might help.