Thou Shalt Remember, that being single means you're strong enough to know what you deserve Dating is just like trying to assemble Ikea furniture. Except unfortunately and inherently inconveniently, there's no Swedish instruction manual that tells you what to do when the boy whose family you're supposed to spend Christmas with breaks up with you on facebook messenger with absolutely no explanation. Put yourself out there - they said. It'll be fun - they said. But lucky for you, I've lived through more than my fair share of heartbreak, so much so, that I now class myself as somewhat of an expert on the dating front. Or so I thought... until I met this weeks guest Jana Hocking. Jana is a radio producer, podcaster and columnist who I swear I was separated from at birth. Having been a single slay queen single life for 7 years now, Jana is as well versed in dating as I am. So we decided to take everything we've learnt from our combined heartbreaks and turn our mess into our message by answering some of your most commonly asked dating questions. Jana is honestly one of the best humans I've ever met and if you want to check out more from her, I've popped all of her information including a link to her own podcast Sex Love and Dating in this weeks show notes. Follow Phoebe on Instagram @phoebeacp or join the Train Wreck Podcast Community Facebook group.