

How Do I Tell My Wife She’s Autistic?
7 snips Jun 26, 2024
Navigating conversations about neurodiversity can be tricky. The speaker offers insights on how to approach the topic of autism in a partner sensitively. Learning to foster understanding and use thoughtful dialogue is key. They highlight why directly suggesting autism may lead to defensiveness and provide strategies for supportive communication. Embracing neurodiversity in relationships can lead to stronger connections.
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Client and Personal Autism Anecdotes
- A client suspected his wife was autistic after their son was diagnosed.
- Jodi Carlton also dated a man she recognized as autistic with different traits from his son.
Avoid Direct Autism Labeling
- Avoid directly telling your partner they are autistic to prevent defensiveness.
- Focus on understanding differences sensitively rather than labeling or blaming.
Focus on Neurodiversity Differences
- Discuss differences in how your brains work using neurodiversity concepts.
- Highlight varied sensory experiences and emotional processing instead of diagnosing.