Calm Parenting Podcast Want A Responsible Child? Back Off (& Shut Up) Part I #508
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Aug 10, 2025 Discover how to foster responsibility in your children by adopting a hands-off approach. Explore the delicate balance between guiding and allowing independence, especially with strong-willed kids. Learn about the pivotal role communication plays in parent-child relationships, emphasizing positive reinforcement over anxious lecturing. Delve into the importance of resilience through struggles, and how trusting children with challenges, such as social media, promotes their growth. Get ready for actionable tips to transform parenting dynamics!
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Hike Turned Into A Lesson
- Kirk Martin let his son own his mood during a foggy mountain hike instead of trying to fix it.
- He focused on himself, enjoyed the day, and silently coached not to rescue his son's emotions.
Let Kids Own Their Behavior
- Back off and let strong-willed children own their moods and choices.
- Step out of the need to control so you avoid power struggles and foment responsibility.
Let Toddlers Practice Shoes
- When a toddler resists help tying shoes, Kirk Martin recommends affirming independence and offering help only if asked.
- Then step away briefly to give space for practice without pressure.