Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel If He's A "High Value Man", What Am I?
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Mar 11, 2024 
In this enlightening conversation, Esther Perel speaks with a woman seeking clarity on her repeated return to an abusive relationship. They explore the emotional entanglements of toxic patterns often rooted in childhood experiences. The discussion highlights the struggle between self-worth and the pull of unhealthy dynamics. Esther encourages her guest to reflect on breaking these cycles and creating safer connections. Listeners gain insight into the importance of self-awareness and the journey towards healing and personal growth.
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Past and Present Toxicity
- The caller recounts past toxic relationships, including one with physical and mental abuse.
- The current relationship, while not physically abusive, exhibits toxicity through blame and devaluation.
From Prize to Problem
- Esther Perel questions how quickly the caller went from being prized to being devalued.
- This shift highlights the dynamic of seeking validation from someone who ultimately diminishes her.
Childhood Overlooked
- The caller describes a childhood where she excelled but felt overlooked by her family.
- She links this lack of appreciation to her constant seeking of validation in other relationships.