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The Thais Gibson Podcast

"Everything's Fine" | How to Communicate When Someone Is Shutting You Out

May 6, 2024
Learn how to effectively communicate with someone who is shutting you out and claiming 'everything's fine'. Discover the importance of empathy, setting boundaries, and prioritizing self-care in relationships.
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Quick takeaways

  • Empathize with others' emotions when they shut down to establish a supportive connection.
  • Offer support based on their needs, not assumptions, to enhance communication and build trust.

Deep dives

Understanding the Importance of Empathy and Understanding

Empathizing with someone's emotions and fears is crucial when they shut down. Pushing them to open up can be counterproductive as it may trigger shame or past traumas. Evaluating their emotional needs based on their perspective rather than assuming how they should react is key to establishing a supportive connection. By approaching them gently, acknowledging a subtle change, and expressing readiness to help without spotlighting their struggles, you can create a safe space for communication.

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