

139: Dating Nightmares & Advice: In The Trenches with Nicole Byer
May 13, 2025
In this entertaining discussion, comedian Nicole Byer shares her hilarious and relatable takes on modern dating mishaps. She and the host explore the frustrations of breadcrumbing and emotional chaos in relationships. They delve into why the 'cool girl' never wins, the pitfalls of settling, and how to navigate long-distance connections. With humor and honesty, they encourage listeners to value self-worth and set boundaries while dating, making the complexities of love feel a bit lighter and much more accessible.
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Annoying Date Save by Bartender
- Nicole went on a date with a man who was smaller than expected but the date became unbearable due to his annoying questions about her standup career.
- The bartender noticed her discomfort and amusingly kept bringing her drinks, making her night more enjoyable despite the bad date.
Don't Pause Life for Absence
- Don't put your life on hold for someone who chooses to be far away for months.
- Consider breaking up during that time and rekindling only if both are truly committed afterward.
Weekly Silence Signals Breadcrumbing
- Weeks of no communication in an exclusive relationship feel like "breadcrumbing" and undermines genuine connection.
- Maintaining regular contact sustains the relationship even at a distance, technological tools are readily available.