

You’re Not the Problem — the Room Is
Aug 21, 2025
Exploring the impact of uncertainty, the discussion highlights how feeling misunderstood can stem from being in the wrong environment. It emphasizes the importance of surrounding yourself with supportive people who truly recognize your worth. A crucial reminder emerges: sometimes, the solution isn’t changing yourself but changing your space. The conversation is not only a call for self-respect but also an invitation to prioritize clarity and authenticity in relationships.
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Uncertainty Can Be Relational
- Uncertainty can come from being in the wrong environment rather than internal doubt.
- Dora reframes some foggy feelings as relational misalignment, not personal failure.
Meeting Where Voice Landed Nowhere
- Dora describes meetings where her voice landed nowhere and left her shrinking after speaking.
- She stepped outside, realized the fog was misalignment, and noticed her body already knew she was unheard.
Move Rooms When You're Unheard
- Pause and notice your bodily signals when you feel foggy instead of immediately fixing yourself.
- If a room consistently distorts you, carry your voice somewhere new and seek spaces that reflect you gently.