The Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy 122. Stage 2 Series: Building the Bridge Into Stage 2
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Aug 19, 2025 Dive into the intricacies of transitioning clients from stage one to stage two of emotionally focused therapy. Discover the importance of creating a safe environment and the unique characteristics of stage two, including pacing and intimacy. The hosts share practical strategies, from informed consent to session-by-session orientations. Using sports metaphors, they illustrate the concept of training emotional 'muscles.' Explore real-world examples of how vulnerability work unfolds, ensuring clients feel secure throughout their journey.
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Stage Two Is A Different Game
- Stage two is qualitatively different from stage one and requires deeper intimacy and sustained emotional access.
- If you're unsure you're in stage two, you're likely still in stage one (partial de-escalation is common).
George's 'First One' Story
- Ryan recalled George Fowler declaring many groups mislabel stage two and that positive weeks at home often reflect partial de-escalation.
- George clarified positive cycle occurs at end of stage two after double-work across bond points.
Test All Four Bond Points First
- Test de-escalation across the four points of a secure bond before moving deeper.
- If any point shows entrenched blocks, return to stage one work to train those 'muscles'.