Choose to be Curious Ep. #58: Infidelity, with "Chump Lady" Tracy Schorn
Jul 11, 2018
Tracy Schorn, known as 'Chump Lady,' is an author and blogger who guides those affected by infidelity. In a compelling discussion, she reveals how curiosity fuels healing after betrayal. Tracy highlights the importance of self-empowerment and sharing personal stories to help others navigate the pain of infidelity. She also challenges conventional views on trust, morals, and recovery while exploring the value of consent in relationships. Through playful analogies, she encourages listeners to embrace curiosity as a tool for personal growth.
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Double Life Betrayal Experience
- Tracy Schorn was married only six months when she discovered her husband had a 20-year double life with many mistresses.
- She was unaware and financially entangled, making the betrayal deeply impactful and disorienting.
Infidelity Curtails Curiosity
- Infidelity destroys curiosity by denying reality and creating gaslighting.
- True curiosity shifts inward: What is acceptable to you, not what caused the betrayal?
Curiosity as a Power Tool
- Use curiosity to define your values, boundaries, and what is acceptable for you.
- Avoid obsessing on the betrayer's motives; focus on your own needs and rebuilding life.