Teen Tidbits, Day 5: The Teenager’s World Is No Longer Black & White: How to Use That to Your Advantage as a Parent

Today’s teen tidbit is number five, and it gets right to the heart of what’s actually happening in your teen’s brain right now!

Somewhere around ages 11 or 12, kids move from a black and white way of thinking into a world full of gray, nuance, and questions, which is why “because I said so” suddenly stops working. (And honestly, that’s a good thing.) 

In this quick episode, we’ll talk about why teens are wired to push boundaries again, how that’s developmentally healthy, and how we as parents can level up by keeping strong boundaries while inviting conversation, choice, and understanding. I’ll also share why cooking has become one of my favorite safe places to practice all of this, from knowing when it’s okay to bend the rules to understanding when rules exist for a really good reason. 

Let’s dive in. 

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Resources We Mention for Boundaries for Teens

• Teens Cook Real Food course
• Free 3-part video series on parenting teens intentionally
• Teen Tidbit 1 on ownership
• Teen Tidbit 2 on agency
• Teen Tidbit 3 on overcoming perfectionism
• Teen Tidbit 4 on passing on family values

• Kitchen Stewardship
• Raising Healthy Families
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• YouTube shorts channel for HPH
• Find the Healthy Parenting Handbook at raisinghealthyfamilies.com/podcast

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