The Art of Love With Lucia Episode 562: How To Keep Someone Interested - An Interview With Doc Love
Aug 15, 2022
In this lively discussion, dating coach Doc Love shares insights from his extensive interviews with over 10,000 women, introducing the concept of interest level. He emphasizes the necessity of maintaining passion in relationships through effective communication and humor. Doc provides practical advice on balancing household chores while keeping the romance alive. He also explores the complexities of financial disagreements and the critical role of trust in romantic partnerships. With a focus on recognizing red flags, this conversation is packed with valuable relationship wisdom.
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How His Research Began
- Doc Love noticed a distraught freshman wearing an Army helmet after a breakup and wondered how love could swing someone so dramatically.
- That observation launched his long project of interviewing women to decode attraction and behavior.
Use Chores And Small Moments As Aphrodisiac
- Do domestic chores regularly and visibly to increase affection; Doc Love recommends men do about 60% of housework.
- Spend small daily moments of appreciation (he calls it six seconds) to keep affection alive.
Interest Level Trumps Labels
- Interest level is the core determinant of romantic outcomes and often overrides psychological labels like attachment style.
- Doc Love argues men must accurately read a woman's interest level rather than trusting words alone.
