The Daily Stoic Michael Ian Black on Vulnerability, Becoming an Actor, and Raising Kids
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May 21, 2022 Michael Ian Black, a versatile actor and author of 'A Better Man,' delves into the transformative journey of fatherhood and emotional vulnerability. He shares how parenting challenged his emotional barriers, advocating for a redefined masculinity that embraces feelings. The conversation touches on the anxieties of raising children in today's world, the importance of seeking mental health support, and the lasting impact of nurturing relationships. Black’s reflections encourage a compassionate approach to parenting, highlighting both its challenges and profound rewards.
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Emotionally Cauterized State
- Michael Ian Black's essay in The Atlantic explored fatherhood's emotional impact.
- It resonated with Ryan Holiday, especially the line about an "emotionally cauterized state".
Emotional Suppression in Men
- Men are often conditioned to suppress emotions, leading to an "emotionally cauterized" state.
- This lack of emotional vocabulary hinders expression, especially in high-stakes situations like fatherhood.
Motivation for Art
- Ryan Holiday believes a need to be seen or understood drives many artists.
- Michael Ian Black's early theater involvement stemmed from a desire to connect with girls and find sanctuary.
