Gedale Fenster - Podcast The Kabbalah of what makes woman attracted to men and how to attract your wife.
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Nov 12, 2025 Explore the intriguing connection between Kabbalah and attraction. Discover how resilience and self-control build trust in relationships. Learn why men must evolve from takers to givers for lasting bonds. Gedale discusses the essential role of humility and prayer in nurturing attraction. He warns about the dangers of addictions that erode relationships. Through spiritual growth and practical guidance, gain insights on enhancing attractiveness and strengthening partnerships. Uncover secrets of confidence and self-mastery as keys to enduring love.
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Attraction Is A Spiritual Foundation
- Gedale Fenster teaches that the Torah's first shidduch contains a code for attraction: a man must be the resilient yesod to attract a wife.
- He links male attraction to self-control and self-confidence as spiritual and practical foundations.
Fix Addictions To Restore Attraction
- Develop self-control and self-confidence through spiritual work and habit change to become a reliable foundation for a spouse.
- Cut addictions like porn, gambling, and drugs because they destroy resilience and repel a partner.
Elul Trains Resilience, Not Constant Peak
- Gedale explains Elul's kavanot as a training in handling life's ups and downs: running and returning is normal spiritual rhythm.
- Resilience through cycles of rise and fall is the muscle that attracts and sustains relationships.